What is it like to be born a girl in the body of a boy? To be locked up in a "house" where the resident does not feel at home? What consequences does that have in a person's life? Féj could only come out as a woman after the death of her mother. The complex relationship with her mother forced her to hide her “being different". The search for her "identity", which actually started around the age of seven, was accelerated around the age of thirty.